“Once you feel whole again as a person and clearly feel in your brain and entire body how unbelievably IMPORTANT, SMART, and INTUITIVE you are, it is then, and only then, that you can make productive changes within yourself and your relationship.
You must start there or there is no foundation for a relationship that isn’t based in some sort of insecurity.”
Is the spark in your relationship dimming or gone? Are you feeling unheard? Unloved?
Is trying to communicate seeming pointless? Do you want change but it just doesn’t seem to be happening?
Women see me for an infinite number of reasons, from affairs, to financial stress, to anger and disappointment. The most common unmet need is regarding communication. It is important that women go within to come to understand what parts of their sadness were brought in to the relationship and what parts developed within the relationship.
“Is it me or is it him?” is a question that can be very emotionally draining. If it isn’t a situation wherein there is emotional abuse… then it is the negative patterns that at some point developed between you. He brought his perception of life into the relationship and you brought your perception of life.
Coming in to coaching solo is a great start for self clarity and self understanding.
When you yourself become clear about what it IS you want and what YOUR positive relationship vision is for the future, then as a team we can work on positive communication action steps.